I know that this is going to seem simplistic. That’s because it’s simple. Luckily things don’t have to be complicated to be effective. Try it and tell me how it goes for you.
Some things are so important that you should be able to say them repeatedly and without them ever becoming a cliche. This is one of those:
Be grateful to your body for all of the amazing things that it does for you and stop bitching so much about what it can’t do or how it looks. Dude.
If you want to feel better and healthier right this minute, try this:
1. Make a list of things that you appreciate about your body (your awesome hair, your beautiful eyes, the curve of your whatever, the fact that your body breathes for you, allows you to think, moves all that blood around all the time etc.) This should be a pretty long list. If you’re having trouble, e-mail me and I’ll help you out. I’m serious – make a list, write it down. I’ll wait….
Ok, now that you have a list (you do have a list right? You didn’t just skip ahead):
2. Start to notice the thoughts that you have about your body.
Really pay attention to when you think about your body and what you think about it. When do you blame it, when do you give it credit? When do you thank it for what it does, when do you accuse it of not doing enough? When do you think that it’s beautiful, when do you think that it’s flawed. Don’t judge your thoughts, just notice them.
3. Start replacing negative thoughts with positive ones from the list that you created in step 1.
This will take some work in the beginning – you’ll have to pay attention to your thoughts and then make a concerted effort to replace negative thoughts with positive ones. At this point, it’s ok if you replace negative thoughts about one part of your body with positive thoughts about another. What is important is that anytime to think something negative about your body, you interrupt that thought and replace it with gratitude. While you’re at it, start looking for opportunities to proactively appreciate your body. Soon, it will become a habit.
4. Notice the things that you typically don’t like about your body.
5. Think of something (anything!) to like about those things.
For example, you might hate the shape of your ass – but you would have some problems if you didn’t have one at all so hey, thanks body for having an ass where an ass is supposed to be.
You might hate your feet but if you can walk I’ll bet you enjoy that and I’m given to understand, from conversations with friends who are amputees, that walking without feet is pretty difficult so hey, thanks feet for walking – I really appreciate it.
6. Replace negative thoughts about parts of your body with positive thoughts about the same parts of your body.
Lather, rinse, repeat and start having a little gratitude for your amazing body and everything it does for you.
Still feel like your body is just a limitation to be overcome? Check out Conversations with my Body
For more on this topic, check out The Un-Roast Post over at Eat the Damn Cake